Belonging

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How do I belong 

We have a very core feeling of belonging to a group circle or society.

A sense of belonging is much more powerful and perhaps can be found in almost 99% of homo sapiens.

Every time we take new actions we immediately turn to our spouse or friends to seek validation and be assured.

Evolution-based sense of belonging emotions is inhibited from an early stage of childhood.
It has always been there in human nature.

What if people don't approve of us? 
Or they refute our way of thinking.
Or most importantly, what if we do not fit into such peculiar culture?

I would say, it's OK to be different.
If we follow our intuition as a result.
Things will turn out to be better or
in case doesn't work maybe we will not   regret it.
Because we are hearing our voice.

A smart person is someone who listens to everyone and follows his innate intuition feeling in other words gut feeling.

The irony is, we would do much better when we don't consider others' validation, reassurance or opinions.

It's hard to develop gut decisions.
But, once it's developed then disregards others' opinions.

Thanks for visiting 
Shaik

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